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By Saida

Let’s face it, Valentines has never meant much to you, you don’t have a thing for red roses,  you don’t need objects to feel loved and you don’t buy sexy lingerie to impress anyone. If at last 2 of these statements hit home, this post is for you.

If not, carry on with your day, we’ll talk more tomorrow.  🙂

I don’t remember the last time I bought lingerie for any other reason but for loving how it looked on my body. For me alone. Not to say that I don’t care how my partner and lovers would react looking at me wearing it, but the intention in buying these lacy pieces was for me.

If you read my Clean Up Your Life post recently, you are familiar with my attitude about a nice, neat closet. I don’t think Valentines should be about buying more crap, however all major brands do tempt us with beautiful sexy collections around this time this year. So if I really feel like getting something pretty for myself, I see this as an opportunity to update some of my older styles.

And one important rule always applies; 1 in, 1 out!

If I buy one item, I have to get rid of something old. This way I always think twice before purchasing a new item and adding one to the land-field.

According to the CTR, only 15% of the textiles we buy are donated or recycled. So, in stead of throwing things out, do clothing swaps with your stylish friends and exchange clothes and accessories!


If you’re going to shop on sale, always buy what you would have bought at a regular price.

Don’t buy something just because it’s cheap! This is how those drawers get filled up with stuff you never use.

A little patience goes a long way.

If you love it but not sure, sleep on it. No emotional purchases! Bad decisions are made late at night and when you’re upset. Even if you think you should be on a date with some dreamy boy, Valentines is not the enemy. Don’t buy something just because it provides a temporary band-aid, buy it because it makes you want to french-kiss your own reflection.

So, with all that said, here are a few more excellent sexy choices for your beautiful sexy body!